Summer of Love, Intro

The year was 1967, I had just turned seven years old, Canada was celebrating its centennial   and two events happened that would mark and define the United States for years to come.

 The first one took place mostly along the East Coast of the US and was referred to as “The Long hot summer of 1967” and it referred to the 159 race riots that erupted across the United States that summer.  It was not a proud summer for the US.

On the other coast the city of San Francisco was bracing itself for an onslaught of “Hippies”.  College and High school students had been streaming into the Haight-Ashbury district since spring break and the local authorities determined to stop the influx just brought more attention to the event.

By the time the summer was done over 100,000 so called hippies had converged on the city. 

A number of groups and organizations in the community responded to the perceived crisis by forming the “Council of the Summer of Love”, which of course gave the summer it’s name. 

The council coordinated efforts of community groups and churches to assist with free clinics, housing, food, sanitation and concerts.

Who were these hippies?  Well sometimes they were called flower children but they were really an eclectic group.  Made up mostly of folks in their mid-teens to mid-twenties who had avowed to not trust anyone over thirty.  Most were suspicious of the government, rejected consumeristic lifestyles and opposed the Vietnam war. A few were interested in politics; others were more concerned with art, music and poetry while others embraced various world religions. It really was a mixed bag.

But it was also from this group that we saw the “Jesus Movement” of the late sixties take root and people lives are still being impacted by the churches that were formed out of that movement.

And wrap your head around the fact that the youngest of those counter culture hippies are now in their mid to late sixties and early seventies and some have grandkids who are over thirty.

It was at the summer of Love that Timothy Leary first used the phrase, "Turn on, tune in, drop out" and the song "San Francisco (Be Sure to Wear Flowers in Your Hair)", written by John Phillips of the Mamas and the Papas, became the unofficial anthem of the summer.

I said all that to say that we are calling this Summer at Cornerstone the “Summer of Love” and for the next 10 weeks we will be focusing on 1 Corinthians 13, which is often referred to as the “Love Chapter” of the bible.  We read a portion of the chapter earlier but now we are going to read all 13 verses together. 

1 Corinthians 13:1-13  If I could speak all the languages of earth and of angels, but didn’t love others, I would only be a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal.  If I had the gift of prophecy, and if I understood all of God’s secret plans and possessed all knowledge, and if I had such faith that I could move mountains, but didn’t love others, I would be nothing.  If I gave everything I have to the poor and even sacrificed my body, I could boast about it; but if I didn’t love others, I would have gained nothing.  Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud  or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged.  It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out.  Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.  Prophecy and speaking in unknown languages and special knowledge will become useless. But love will last forever!  Now our knowledge is partial and incomplete, and even the gift of prophecy reveals only part of the whole picture!  But when full understanding comes, these partial things will become useless.  When I was a child, I spoke and thought and reasoned as a child. But when I grew up, I put away childish things.  Now we see things imperfectly as in a cloudy mirror, but then we will see everything with perfect clarity. All that I know now is partial and incomplete, but then I will know everything completely, just as God now knows me completely.  Three things will last forever—faith, hope, and love—and the greatest of these is love.

And that’s where we are going to park for the Summer of Love.

Really though, 1 Corinthians 13 can’t be taken completely in isolation.  It is part of an entire letter that was written by the apostle Paul to the Christ Followers who made up the church in Corinth, which was a city in Greece. 

In the first eleven chapters of the letter Paul has been dealing with all kinds of moral and theological issues that had arisen in the church.  Whenever I hear people say, “I wish the church could be more like the New Testament Church!”  I wonder if they have actually read the New Testament. 

Then in Chapter twelve Paul seems to turn a page as he talks about the gifts of the Spirit. There is the gift of speaking in unknown languages, the gift of prophecy, the gift of wisdom, the gift of healing and a bunch of others.  And people get excited about those types of gifts. 

But listen to the closing words of 1 Corinthians 12 1 Corinthians 12:31  . . . But now let me show you a way of life that is best of all.   In the NIV it says 1 Corinthians 12:31 . . . And now I will show you the most excellent way.

A better way of life than the Corinthian Christians were presently living, a way more excellent than the promise of the spiritual gifts.

So the first thing that Paul tells us in 1 Corinthians 13:1  If I could speak all the languages of earth and of angels, but didn’t love others, I would only be a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal.

So Paul begins with the premise that Christianity is Words, but not Just Words  The temptation here is to negate the value of words, but that isn’t the intent.  Words are an important part of how Christianity began.  Remember Jesus went preaching and teaching.    Crowds gathered to hear him speak words.

The church spread throughout the known world as people like Paul preached the word and taught about Christianity.  Remember for the most part this was an oral culture.  Even when words were written down, they were written down to be read out loud.

St. Francis of Assis is often quoted as having said “Preach the Gospel at all times. When necessary, use words.”  It’s kind of quotable, and inspirational but he didn't say that, we don’t know who did but there is no evidence at all that Francis did. 

But it’s kind of a pithy and is used to show that deeds are more important than words and that you don’t even have to use words to convey the gospel of Christ.  What it has become is a good excuse for not talking about your faith.

If you can preach the gospel without using words that would make you better than John Wesley or Augustine or for that matter Jesus.  They all used words to preach the gospel.

Paul wrote in Romans 10:13-14  For “Everyone who calls on the name of the LORD will be saved.”  But how can they call on him to save them unless they believe in him? And how can they believe in him if they have never heard about him? And how can they hear about him unless someone tells them?

So Paul is not trying to diminish the power of our words.  Whether they be the eloquently spoken words of men.  Those words that are crafted and polished to have maximum effect.   Or even if they are the words of heaven, and there has been debate over whether the language of Angels referred to the miraculous gift of tongues or the actual language that the angels speak.  We don’t know.  And if someone tells you that they know for sure what Paul meant, they’re bluffing.

What Paul was telling the church was that words without love are empty, regardless of how eloquent and pretty they are.  It’s easy to speak, it’s more difficult to speak in love. 

I love the story about the hotheaded woman who once told John Wesley, "My talent is to speak my mind." To which Mr. Wesley replied, "Woman, God wouldn't care a bit if you would bury that talent."

In Ephesians 4:15 Paul talks about speaking the truth in love, and that is the challenge, to not just speak the truth, that’s the easy part, but to speak the truth in love.

Just take a minute and think about what you are going to say, because after you say it, after you speak those words, your words will rule over you.  As long as those words remain unspoken, you rule over them.

Benjamin Franklin once wrote “If you think little of a person, you ought to say as little as you think.”  That sounds safe, goes right along with what Andy Rooney said  “Always keep your words soft and sweet, just in case you have to eat them.”

What Paul was saying was that without love there is no harmony in your words, there is only discord and noise, kind of like gongs and cymbals. 

And boy after those words are spoken they are so hard for you to take back and so hard for others to forget.

Kind loving words don’t cost much, but they are so valuable.  And for the preacher the warning is there as well, we hear about the preachers who preached “Hell Fire and Brimstone”  but is that a preaching that is grounded in 1 Corinthians 13? 

William Barclay warns preachers that “The preaching which is all threat and no love may terrify but it will not save.”

Nowhere in the bible are we told that we are to scare the Hell out of people, but we are told that we are to show them the love that God has for them. 

But it wasn’t just the misuse of words that Paul was concerned with, he continues on in 1 Corinthians saying 1 Corinthians 13:2  If I had the gift of prophecy, and if I understood all of God’s secret plans and possessed all knowledge, and if I had such faith that I could move mountains, but didn’t love others, I would be nothing.  So, next we are told that Christianity is Knowledge, but not Just Knowledge 

Through the years, I have met some folks who seem to almost exalt in the fact that they aren’t all that knowledgeable about their faith.   They seem to feel that they have a purer relationship with Jesus because it’s not cluttered up with theology and stuff like that.  They talk about having a simple faith.

You don’t have to read very far in the New Testament to see the value that Paul and others place on knowledge.  Paul’s prayer for the Christians in Philippi was recorded in Philippians 1:9  I pray that your love will overflow more and more, and that you will keep on growing in knowledge and understanding.

And Peter encourages the early church with these words:  2 Peter 1:5  In view of all this, make every effort to respond to God’s promises. Supplement your faith with a generous provision of moral excellence, and moral excellence with knowledge . . .

Peter and Paul weren’t telling people that they needed to read every new Christian best seller that came out and to immerse themselves in every new Christian fad that showed up.  But they were telling people that they had to know the how’s and the why’s of their salvation.  That they needed to know what the bible says and what the bible doesn’t say.

Theodore Roosevelt once wrote  “A thorough knowledge of the Bible is worth more than a college education.”  That falls in the category of All “Generalizations are wrong.”  But I will say that as a Christian a knowledge of the bible of what you believe and why you believe, is essential to your faith. 

And that happens when you read the bible and discuss it with other Christians. And if you don’t have a bible, just mention it to the staff and we will get you a bible.

But in light of all of that, if you have knowledge but no love, you might as well be as dumb as a stump for all that it matters.

You know what I mean, you’ve seen people who have to be right.  They won’t have a discussion, they won’t hear other views.  And they alienate themselves from others and even when they are right it doesn’t matter because nobody cares. 

Confession time, I have people in my life that when they start I just check out, it wouldn’t matter if they were telling me the secrets of the ages because I can’t have a discussion with them.  It’s their way their views and their truth and they won’t listen to anything else. 

And when you use your knowledge or your debating skills to win the point without regards to how you leave the other person feeling, you’re a bully.  And nobody likes bullies.

Earlier in his letter Paul warned the Corinthians:  1 Corinthians 8:1-3  . . . But while knowledge makes us feel important, it is love that strengthens the church.  Anyone who claims to know all the answers doesn’t really know very much.  But the person who loves God is the one whom God recognizes.

Paul’s first two statements make sense, the third one is a little confusing.   1 Corinthians 13:3  If I gave everything I have to the poor and even sacrificed my body, I could boast about it; but if I didn’t love others, I would have gained nothing. So it is here that we discover that Christianity is Action, but not Just Action 

There are times I think that we get stuck in Ephesians 2:9  Salvation is not a reward for the good things we have done, so none of us can boast about it.  And we are so afraid that we might boast about the good things we do that we just don’t do any good things.

And we aren’t saved by our good works, but paradoxically we are saved to do good works.  

You don’t have to look very far into Jesus’ words to see him commanding us to respond to the needs of others.  Not just think about it, but to do it.  James, the brother of Jesus, writes in his letter James 2:14-16  What good is it, dear brothers and sisters, if you say you have faith but don’t show it by your actions? Can that kind of faith save anyone?  Suppose you see a brother or sister who has no food or clothing,  and you say, “Good-bye and have a good day; stay warm and eat well”—but then you don’t give that person any food or clothing. What good does that do?

By the way, that is a rhetorical question, James wasn’t really looking for an aswer.

And Paul isn’t telling us to not give to the poor not to do good deeds.  He just saying do it out of love not simply out of obligation.

Deepak Chopra wrote “Love without action is meaningless. Action without love is irrelevant.”  And yes I know Chopra is  a new age guy.

And those good works done without love will still benefit the recipient.  If they were hungry and you gave them food without love, their hunger would still be satisfied.  If they were thirsty and you gave them a drink, their thirst would still be slacked.  If they were cold and you gave them clothes out of a feeling of obligation they’d still be warm.

It would be you who missed out. 

Love is the magic ingredient.  J Vernon McGee was a Presbyterian preacher and he summed it up this like this, “Look at it this way: Write down a string of zeros -- eloquence alone is zero, prophecy alone is zero, knowledge alone is zero, faith alone is zero, sacrifice alone is zero, martyrdom alone is zero. Six zeros still add up to nothing. But you put the numeral 1 to the left of that string of zeros, and every zero amounts to something. And, friend, love is the thing that needs to be added to every gift of the Spirit. Without love your gift is worthless.”

So over the next couple of months, “The Summer of Love” we will not be describing love, we will be painting a picture of love.

Have you ever tried to describe something that is indescribable?  I cannot adequately describe the Great Pyramid, even after having climbed it and gone into it.  But I could show you a picture.  What describes Egypt more than a picture of a man and his minion on a camel in front of the pyramids of Giza? 

How would you describe a platypus?

I’ve seen a platypus and I’d be hard pressed to describe it.  Well, it’s a mammal, that lives it the water it’s got a bill like a duck and tail like a beaver.  It’s furry but it’s got webbed feet, and it doesn’t give birth it lays eggs, oh and the mother nurse her young.

There is no way that you could describe a Platypus to a person who had never seen it before that would accurately portray it.  But you could show them a picture.

And it’s the same way with love.  And when we look at the picture that Paul paints for us of love, it is hard to believe that it was painted 2000 years ago, because it is as fresh as tomorrow.

And it would do well to learn from the painting because the bible tells us in 1 John 3:18  “Let’s not merely say that we love each other; let us show the truth by our actions.”

We often think of love as an emotion and so we fall into love and we fall out of love. We experience love at first sight.  When it comes to love most of us would agree with Woody Allen when he said  “I was nauseous and tingly all over. I was either in love or I had smallpox.” 

But if love is simply an emotion than love couldn’t be something that God would command of us. 

You can’t be commanded to feel something.  Love is something you do.  It may produce emotions, but first and foremost is an action. 

And we are commanded to love.  John 13:34  So now I am giving you a new commandment: Love each other. Just as I have loved you, you should love each other. 

And then Jesus spells out the consequence of obeying that commandment: John 13: 35   Your love for one another will prove to the world that you are my disciples.”

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The Silent Minion

When I was a kid I thought being a butler would be kind of cool. 

The problem was, growing up in a trailer in New Brunswick there weren’t a lot of folks around who needed butlers.

And my favourite butler has been “Alfred Thaddeus Crane Pennyworth”  you know him, he was Batman’s butler.  And my favourite Alfred has been played by Michael Cane, but the actor who played him in the most movies is Michael Gough who played the role of Alfred for three different Batmans.  Michael Keaton, Val Kilmer and George Clooney.

And butlers are supposed to be like children, seen and not heard.  They are simply a part of the background.  They open doors, press clothes and present visitor.  And while they seem relatively unimportant the world of their masters would fall apart without the ever-present butler.

And every once in a while they are good to blame, you know “The butler did it!”  Whatever it was. 

This is week 7 of our “Minions: Playing Second Fiddle for God” series.    And you will recall that when Leonard Bernstein was asked what the most difficult instrument to play was, , he replied without hesitation: “The second fiddle. I can get plenty of first violinists, but to find someone who can play the second fiddle with enthusiasm – that’s a problem; and if we have no second fiddle, we have no harmony."

This morning we are going to step back into the New Testament and into probably the most familiar story of the bible, the Christmas story. 

Being Father’s Day I thought it would be good to take a look the man God entrust his son to.  Jesus’ earthly father.

He’s always the forgotten one at Christmas.  Oh, we remember the Christ child, how could we forget him, even in the shopping malls they sing about the birth of Christ and his name is even included in the very word Christmas.  Without Christ, there would be no Christmas and so he’s remembered. 

And his mother, you remember “Round yon Virgin.”  After all the virgin birth was pretty spectacular, wasn’t an everyday occurrence.  And we are still talking about it.  And to give Mary her due it took a lot of faith to trust God for the miracle that he had promised. 

We even remember the bit players in the drama, we talk about the shepherds and the Wiseman, we cast them in the Christmas pageants and talk about how lucky they were to be a part of the first advent. 

The innkeeper even gets a speaking role in the play and he’s basically the villain of the piece.  Who’s forgotten?  Joseph, you know Mary’s husband, the man who would raise Jesus the Son of God as Jesus the Son of Joseph.

We don’t know a whole lot about Joseph, we know that he was a carpenter, that he lived in Nazareth and that his family was originally from Bethlehem.  We know that his father’s name was Jacob and that he was a descendant of David. 

We know that it was Joseph that the Angels came to in a dream to warn about King Herod looking for Jesus, and he took his family to Egypt.

We know that when Jesus was 12 years old that Joseph took him to Jerusalem for the Passover feast and we know that Joseph taught Jesus his trade.  But then we don’t hear anymore from or about Joseph after that.

And it seems that everybody had a voice in the gospel account of the first Christmas everybody except for Joseph.  We hear from Mary and Gabriel, Elizabeth and Zechariah, the shepherds and the Magi.  We even hear from Herod, and he was the bad guy. But not a peep from Joseph.  He’s as silent as the best of butlers. 

We presume that because at his crucifixion Jesus asked John to care for his mother that Joseph died before Christ was crucified. 

In Mark 6:3 Jesus is identified as Mary’s son and his brothers are named but there is no mention of Joseph so it’s not that much of a stretch to presume that Joseph died before Christ began his ministry.  And we know that within the community, that Joseph was considered to be the Father of Christ.

You know the story; Joseph was engaged to a young girl from Nazareth named Mary.  Historically and culturally we can almost assume that they had been engaged from childhood, although we don’t know that, but you know what happens when you assume?  Yeah sometimes you’re right. 

And so, we don’t know how long they had been engaged but we do know that they had entered into the last stage of their engagement, which was known as the Betrothal.  Now Betrothal was much more serious than our engagement.  It lasted for about a year and was a legally binding contract, which could only be broken by death or by divorce. 

I’m sure that the couple was doing all the things that couples do to get ready for weddings.  You know the bride is rushing hither thither and yon, and she keeps asking the groom, “So what do you think honey? Is this right? Should we do that?  What about flowers and the reception?

And Joseph being the good groom is nodding and smiling and saying “Whatever you think dear.” 

And I don’t know exactly how she broke the news to him, but at some point in all of the wedding arrangements she must have done a “I’m so excited about this, and what with Rachel coming for the wedding, and Martha, and Elizabeth, did I tell you that Elizabeth was pregnant?  I did?  

That is such a neat thing, you know I’m pregnant too, maybe the boys will play together when they grow up, do you think we ought to have fish at the reception as well as the beef?”

And Joseph does a “whoa, what did you say?” and Mary would respond and say “Do you think we ought to have fish at the reception as well as beef, you know in case there are vegetarians there?”   “No not that, the other part.”

“Oh, you mean about Rachel coming down, didn’t I tell you?”

Seriously I don’t know how Mary did it, how do you tell your fiancé that you’re pregnant and it had nothing to do with him.  Maybe she read him the Christmas story out of Luke. 

However she did it though it must have left him completely stunned. How could she possibly have betrayed him, and then expected him to believe that entire line about her still being a virgin? 

The father was the Holy Spirit, right, like what turnip wagon did she think he fell off of?

And the conversation must have ended with Joseph feeling betrayed and Mary feeling hurt because he didn’t believe her and doubting her integrity. 

But what could he do, he had trusted her, he wanted to spend the rest of his life with her, but for her to go and . . . it just wasn’t right. 

So what was he to do?  Well there were a couple of options, he could have her stoned to death, according to the law that was the punishment for adultery and during the betrothal period it would be considered adultery. 

The other option of course was to simply break off the engagement, but remember that by this time it could only be done with a formal divorce. 

The Bible tells us that Joseph was a just man, and so he decided to simply go through with a quiet divorce so Mary wouldn’t be disgraced publicly and get on with his life.  But life is never that simple, is it? 

That night as he tumbled into a trouble sleep, something remarkable happened.  An Angel appeared to Joseph, I wonder if Joe’s first thought was “I knew I should have skipped the chilli and ice cream before I went to bed.” 

Well the angel had a message and the message was “trust her, Joseph, trust her.”  The angel explained how the child that Mary was carrying was indeed the Son of God and that Joseph needed to go ahead with the wedding.

It’s kind of interesting what happened here.  Perhaps you’ve never noticed it, or if you have then perhaps it didn’t bother you.  So, after the angel has clued Joseph in we read in  Matthew 1:24 When Joseph woke up, he did what the angel of the Lord commanded. He brought Mary home to be his wife, 

You say, “Ok, what’s the problem?”  Well no problem really but In Luke Chapter 2 we are told how Joseph had to go to Bethlehem to take part in the Census listen to what it says in Luke 2:5  He took with him Mary, his fiancée, who was now obviously pregnant.

Kind of beat that one around for a while, Matthew says Joseph took Mary home as his wife, but Luke calls Mary, Joseph’s fiancée. 

I wonder, and I realize that I’m speculating but I wonder if Mary had to live with Joseph and his family until the wedding because her parents wouldn’t let her stay when they found out she was pregnant?   

I wonder if the wedding was perceived to be a shotgun wedding, what type of wedding would it have been, they didn’t have shotguns back then? 

I remember a friend calling me years ago and telling me that him and his girlfriend were getting married and it was going to be a formal wedding, that her father had painted the shotgun white. 

We really don’t know much other than they were married and the scriptures tell us that she remained a virgin until Jesus was born.  The children she had after Jesus,  belonged to Joseph. 

If you know the Christmas story you know that the Roman authorities called for a census and that everyone had to return to the town of origin and for Joseph that meant Bethlehem. 

Let’s pull down our map, a couple of land marks.  Sea of Galilee is here the Dead Sea is here and here is Nazareth and from there  Joseph needs to  take his pregnant wife, probably by donkey 110 km to Bethlehem where the child would be born. 

Not the type of trip recommended for someone who was 9 months pregnant.  When Angela was 8 1/2 months pregnant we moved back from New York, but she got to drive a brand-new Plymouth, my dad would say she would have better off with a donkey but he’s a Ford man.

So that’s the story, but what do we learn about Joseph?

Let’s go back to the story: The angel appears to Mary to let her know that even though she is a virgin that she is going to give birth to the son of God. 

She tells Joseph who is a little skeptical and he decides to call off the engagement, which would seem to be an appropriate response.

That night as he sleeps he’s visited by an angel who tells him that Mary is telling the truth and we read Joseph’s response in Matthew 1:24  When Joseph woke up, he did as the angel of the Lord commanded and took Mary as his wife.

So the first thing we discover about Joseph was that Joseph Trusted God  We are looking at the story from this end and there are still people who call the virgin birth into question. 

I mean there are so called Christians and even so called Christian Churches that say the virgin birth didn’t really happen, that it isn’t really important that we believe it. 

What a crock, I don’t know if that’s a correct theological term or not, but if you can’t believe that Jesus was born of a virgin what can you believe about Him?  But they say, “that’s impossible!” 

Of course it’s impossible, that’s the entire point.  If you’re going to believe that Jesus was divine then you’d better believe that he had a divine beginning. 

But there are people today, who even though they have the gospel account, even though they can read that Jesus lived died and rose from the dead, can’t believe that he was born of a virgin.  Think about poor Joseph. 

The girl he planned on spending his entire life with tells him “I’m going to be a mom, but you’re not going to be a dad.”  What do you say? 

I can’t say with a hundred percent certainty, but I would suspect that I’d be close to 99.99 % certain that nobody in here would have believed Mary’s story.  And if you would, I have a lovely bridge I’m trying to sell, goes between Dartmouth and Halifax.

Mary would always know that she was a virgin.  She knew exactly what she had done, and what she hadn’t done, she wasn’t naïve, when Gabriel told her that she would have a son she responded in Luke 1:34  Mary asked the angel, “But how can this happen? I am a virgin.”

But Joseph, all he had to rely on was the word of Mary, and the word of an angel.  And it would appear that the message from the angel was the turning point.

I’m sure that Joseph must have thought, “I don’t understand it, I can’t explain it, I’m not even sure that I’m happy about it, but if it’s of God then count me in.” 

Think about it, Mary wasn’t the only one that had to put up with the whispers and snickers about her situation.  Joseph was the one who would have gotten the blame. 

“What a heel couldn’t even wait ‘til they were married.”

The women would have looked down their noses at him, and the guy’s would have joked about him.  And what would Joseph have said, “Look it’s not like that at all, she’s still a virgin the child is the Holy Spirit’s.”

And you can just imagine the guys “Sure the Holy Spirit got Mary pregnant, nod nod, wink wink, now Joseph thinks he’s God.”

And yet as far as we know once Joseph was visited by the angel he never doubted the parentage of Jesus. 

Let’s go back to the scripture that was read for us earlier, Luke 3:21-23  One day when the crowds were being baptized, Jesus himself was baptized. As he was praying, the heavens opened,  and the Holy Spirit, in bodily form, descended on him like a dove. And a voice from heaven said, “You are my dearly loved Son, and you bring me great joy.”  Jesus was about thirty years old when he began his public ministry. Jesus was known as the son of Joseph.

So not only did Joseph trust God but God Trusted Joseph Think about it, just for a minute, put yourself in God’s place. 

You’re going to come to the earth as a helpless child, you are going to be raised and fed and nurtured by two humans, just plain ordinary peoples.  Who are you going to trust to do the job?

I’ve been a parent for almost thirty three years and I’m not sure that I would trust me with the responsibility.  It was Samuel Butler the English writer who wrote “Parents are the last people on earth who should have children.”

One of the first indication of the type of man Joseph was is found in Matthew 1:19  Joseph, her fiancé, was a good man and did not want to disgrace her publicly, so he decided to break the engagement quietly.

He could have had her killed, it was certainly an option as laid down in the Old Testament, probably wouldn’t have been the first time it happened, and probably wouldn’t have been the last. 

Even if it doesn’t happen today the temptation is there, Loretta Lynn made this statement “My attitude toward men who mess around is simple: If you find 'em, kill 'em.” There are those here whom I would suspect would subscribe to that theory as well.

He could have done that, but he didn’t.  He also could have made a public spectacle out of Mary, he could have told everyone that he knew that she had slept around on him, could have dragged her into the middle of town, humiliated her and demanded that the engagement be called off.  

No instead he decided to break the engagement quietly and the thing that is most telling about his character are the words”He did not want to disgrace her publicly.”

Joseph also brought his son up in a Godly home.  There’s an interesting note in Luke 2:41  Every year Jesus’ parents went to Jerusalem for the Passover festival.

It was the desire of every devout Jew to celebrate Passover in Jerusalem, but it wasn’t always easy, so most people didn’t make the trip. 

But we are told that Mary and Joseph made the trip not just the years that it was convenient, but every year. 

If we were to pull up the map again, here is Nazareth, where Jesus lived with his parents, and here is Jerusalem, which is right next door to Bethlehem, so a distance of about 110 kms that’s further then from here to Truro. 

And there wasn’t just Mary, Joseph and Jesus.  We are told in the scriptures that there were at least two brothers and at least two sisters, and they didn’t have a minivan to go in, they were on foot. 

Most of us would find it inconvenient if we had to drive to Truro for a Christmas Eve service, but Joseph felt that it was important that he celebrate Passover in Jerusalem with his family, every year. 

Jesus’ life as a child is pretty much a mystery to us except for the story about the Passover celebration in Jerusalem, but we are told this in Luke 2:52  Jesus grew in wisdom and in stature and in favour with God and all the people.  That's a pretty good report.

And Joseph had to take at least some of the credit.  Jesus may have been the son of God but it was Joseph who raised him.

And maybe Jesus would have said with Michael Jordon “My heroes are and were my parents. I can't see having anyone else as my heroes.” 

Over the past seven weeks we’ve looked at those who didn’t get to play a lead role in the story of God.  And the reality is, most of us won’t get to play the lead either.  But the story wouldn’t have been complete without the supporting actors and actresses.

I watched the Minion movie again the other day and in the introduction the Minions were between masters, and as they simply existed the narrator said “They felt empty inside, without a master they served no purpose.” 

From the beginning, we were designed to be in fellowship with God, and when that is missing we are like the minions, we feel empty inside, without a purpose. 

The Master is waiting for you.