For ten years starting in 1968 Christian Life Magazine
published a list compiled by Elmer Towns, who was a Sunday School Guru, listing
the top 100 Sunday Schools in America.
In 1974 the largest Sunday School in the US and assumedly in
the world was First Baptist Church in Hammond Indiana with an average weekly
attendance of 11,303, in Sunday School. They
had 165 buses operating, reported 8,040 baptisms that year and had an income of
almost 3 million dollars.
Sunday school conferences were the norm for Pastors who
wanted to see their churches grow and churches that didn’t offer Sunday School
programs were considered to be weak and ineffectual and maybe even not
Christian…
But twenty years later that was changing. In 1994 when Cornerstone was in the planning
stages we made the conscious decision to not have Sunday School. Part of it was practical, we didn’t have any
Sunday School teachers and we would have had to pony up more cash to rent our
facilities for a longer period of time.
But it went beyond the practical.
In the two previous churches I had pastored we had offered Sunday School
and I had watched the commitment of both students and teachers waning.
It takes a lot of commitment to make Sunday School happen,
teachers who have to commit to prepare lessons every week, often for 52 weeks a
year, year after year. Parents who had
to commit to bring their kids to Sunday School.
It was a constant struggle to recruit teachers and students and keep
them motivated.
And so twenty years ago when we launched it was without a
Sunday School program, instead we were committed to providing a high quality
children’s program. And for the first 14
years that was run by Angela and for the last six years Pastor Marilyn taken
the lead and it has worked.
And there are folks who still call our programs Sunday
School, but they really aren’t.
And in churches everywhere there were staples with the
Sunday School programs. There was the
opening session where they played games that helped them memorize scripture and
sang songs to help them learn bible stories.
And then the kids went to their classrooms where they would learn the
stories from the bible, often from Flannel graphs. And all the kids and often the adults would
be learning the same things each week just presented at a level appropriate for
their age level.
Flannel Graph Story
of Mary and Martha.
She was a little steamed, actually she was a lot ticked and
who could blame her. Sure she had been
the one who had invited the company over, but it wasn’t just her home, I mean
her sister could do a little bit to help out.
Instead she just sat there staring up at their guest as if it was the
first time she’d ever seen the man, when the truth was they had practically
grown up together. And so she walked a
little louder, actually it was pretty close to stomping, and banged the pots a
little more than necessary, actually a lot more than necessary and she sighed a
lot and not little sighs either, these we full blown asthmatic sighs that were
not to be missed. And yet they were
missed, their guest continued to teach and her sister sat mesmerized, hanging
on every word that he said. And Martha
was a little steamed, actually she was a lot ticked and who could blame her.
We read the story earlier in the service. Mary and Martha were the sisters of Jesus’
good friend Lazarus and it would appear from different gospel accounts that
Jesus spent a fair amount of time at their home. On this specific occasion Jesus was
travelling past on one of his journeys and Martha invited him to come and stay
with her family. When Jesus arrived he
sat down and began to speak, we don’t know if he was teaching, or if he was
telling them of his journey or just shooting the breeze. Whatever it was Mary was soon entranced with
his words and sat at his feet hanging on to every word. If you ever saw the CBS mini-series “Jesus” you
might remember they actually portrayed Mary as having a crush on Jesus, and it
could have happened. He was a likeable
type of guy who obviously was well respected, had a trade and came from a good
family. A girl could do worse than
Jesus.
But the story really isn’t about Mary at all; it’s about her
sister, Martha. It had been Martha who
had invited Jesus into her home and she was bound and determined that everything
would be perfect for Jesus. And so she
began to fuss around, cleaning up and getting supper ready. At first it wasn’t bad but the longer she
worked the more she began to resent the fact that her sister was just sitting
there, doing nothing. And finally she
couldn’t stand it any longer, in Australia they would say that she spit the
dummy or got her knickers in a knot, and she blurted out, “excuse me, doesn’t
anybody think this might be more than a little unfair, me playing Cinderella,
while her highness sits on her duff and does nothing.” Or something to that effect.
And Jesus responded by saying “Martha, don’t sweat the
little stuff, and this is all little stuff.
Right now Mary has discovered what is really important, and I’m not
going to put a damper on that.”
I wonder what Martha’s response was? It’s not recorded but somehow I don’t think
she said “Oh I’m sorry Lord, I didn’t realize.”
What can we learn from Martha in this story?
Let’s go back and look at the story, Luke 10:38 As Jesus and the disciples continued on their way to Jerusalem, they
came to a certain village where a woman named Martha welcomed him into her
home.
We Can Learn to be
Like Martha. For better or worse Martha had a servant’s heart. Years ago a friend of mine, actually the
engineer who designed our building referred to engineers as “The Sons of
Martha” and that comes from a poem that Kipling wrote in it he
The Sons of Mary seldom bother,
for they have inherited that good part;
for they have inherited that good part;
But the Sons of Martha favour their Mother of the careful
soul and the troubled heart.
And because she lost her temper once, and because she was
rude to the Lord her Guest,
Her Sons must wait upon Mary's Sons, world without end,
reprieve, or rest.
We have talked in the past about spiritual gifts, that is to
say the gifts that are given to each believer for the building up of the
Kingdom.
Depending on who you talk to the list include things like,
prophecy, speaking in unknown languages, healing, teaching and leadership. And right in the middle of all of that is the
gift of hospitality, or entertaining. A
very valid gift and a very important gift.
It is referred to in scriptures like 1 Peter 4:9-10 Cheerfully share your home with those who need a meal or a
place to stay. God has given each of you a gift from his great variety of
spiritual gifts. Use them well to serve one another. As well as Romans 12:13 When God’s people are in need, be ready to help
them. Always be eager to practice hospitality.
And Hebrews 13:2 Don’t forget
to show hospitality to strangers, for some who have done this have entertained
angels without realizing it!
Do you remember that last scripture from the King James, it
says: Hebrews
13:2 Be
not forgetful to entertain strangers: for thereby some have entertained angels
unawares. When I first
heard that I wondered who would want to entertain angels in underwear. Talk about strange mind pictures.
So we need to be like Martha in the sense that she knew what
her giftedness was, and she was willing to put it to use. She was one of those people whose home was
always open. As believers one of the
most frustrating things in life can be trying to do things that we not gifted
for, it goes back to the trying to put square pegs in round holes.
Now sometimes we can fill a temporary need, and that’s
valid. But for the most part our place
of service ought to be where we are spiritually gifted. When we find where that is, and then we exercise
that gift we not only feel fulfilled we are fulfilled.
Mary Lou Retton said
As simple as it sounds, we all must try to be
the best person we can: by making the best choices, by making the most of the
talents we've been given.
But spiritual gifts are more than simply talents, they are
gifts given to Christians from the Holy Spirit, for the purpose of seeing the
Kingdom of God grow. And every Christian
has at least one spiritual gift, and most of us have several, some stronger,
some not nearly as evident. That’s part
of why Paul wrote in 1 Corinthians 12:4-6 There
are different kinds of spiritual gifts, but the same Spirit is the source of
them all. There are different kinds of service, but we serve the same Lord. God
works in different ways, but it is the same God who does the work in all of us.
But how do you find out what your gift is? One of the easiest ways is to take a
spiritual gift inventory, it’s like a personality test except it helps us to
identify our spiritual giftedness. If
you interested let me know and I’ll get a copy to you. But many of us know what our giftedness is,
because that’s where we feel comfortable.
One of the easiest ways to determine that is by asking two
questions: 1) Do I enjoy this? and 2) Do
I do it well? The first question can
only be answered by you; the second question may have to be answered honestly
by someone else. Notice that I said
honestly.
Not like the train wrecks who get panned on American Idol then
tell the judges: “But all my friends say I can sing.” And I can only think of a couple of
explanations for that
1) Nobody in their life knows anything about music. And
maybe there are some bizarre little communities out there where horrific
singing is something to be admired and praised. I've never heard a hint of such
a community and as strange as it may seem it be it can't be as strange as the
only other alternative and that is
2) People who say they love these folks would lie to them
about their singing abilities setting them up for ridicule and
humiliation. And they would probably
defend their actions by saying they didn’t want to hurt their feelings.
For the church to function at its optimum level every
believer has to be exercising his or her spiritual gifts. Paul uses the analogy of the body time and
time again to describe the church, and for a body to operate the way it was
designed each element does the work that it was designed to do. The nose smells, the eyes see, the ears hear.
That’s the way it’s supposed to work, and we are told that often if one part
doesn’t work the way it’s supposed to that other parts take up the load. And so a blind person may have a heightened
sense of hearing or smell to help offset the disability of not being able to
see.
But that’s not the way it’s supposed to be and it’s not
nearly as effective. In the same way
when some believers don’t use their spiritual gifts to help the kingdom grow
then the gap will have to be filled by someone else, perhaps someone who isn’t
gifted there but is willing to help carry the load. But that’s not the way it’s supposed to be
and it’s not nearly as effective. Think about what happens when things get
mixed up and your nose runs and your feet smell.
If Cornerstone is going to be everything that God intends
Cornerstone to be. And if we are going
to impact the people that God wants us to impact. And if we are going to do all that God
intends for us to do it will be when “We” not “Me” does it.
We’ve been here before but everyone here, everyone here has
an ability, a gift, a “something” that they could and should contribute to the
Kingdom, and often as Christ followers we do it through the local church.
Do you ever stop and think about how many people are
volunteering on a typical Sunday morning to make all this seem seamless. So that adults and children can be lead into
God’s throne room? This morning there
are 35 people who will be involved in some way today between the two
services. From nursery to greeting to
making coffee and cleaning up afterwards to children’s ministry and platform
ministry and in the sound booth. That
doesn’t include anyone who draws a salary.
And there is something you could be doing and something you
should be doing and if you are honest than you know that there is someplace at
Cornerstone that you can serve.
And so the good is that Martha knew her spiritual gift and
was willing to put it to work. But like
everything in life, balance is a wonder thing.
Luke
10:39-40 Her sister, Mary, sat at the Lord’s
feet, listening to what he taught. But Martha was distracted by the big dinner
she was preparing. And it is while
Martha is exercising her spiritual gift that the wheels kind of come off the
wagon.